Aren't you over that YET?!

We 'get over it' when we get over it.

And we certainly have the right to work through our own process in our own way in our own time.

Not according to someone else's timetable.

So easy to tell others 'to get over it'.

"He hurt you two years ago. Are you STILL thinking about that?!"

Well, 'she' is not the one with the history of putting 35 years into that marriage.
She is not the one who invested her entire youth into a relationship with that man--------and had his children.

If you are being seen as "the bi*ch" -------the simmering, angry, can't get over it, angry woman----------- or man---------- you DO DO have the right to 'get over it' when and how you choose to.

(OF COURSE it's good to stop feeling so bad! But NOT to appear like "such a forgiving, good woman"! But-----so that YOU feel better. But be really careful when you fall into the trap of feeling ashamed because others --------maybe others who felt like you felt and who are now past it and who FORGOT WHENCE THEY CAME FROM --------- and who are now telling YOU 'to move on'-----to 'get over it'.)

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